Islamic wedding in Indonesia - it is a time of great joy and happiness.In a traditional setting, which still prevails in most Indonesian regions, the suit is the concern of the parents.Girls are not allowed to look for her husband alone, although they have the right to declare their preferences and to reject the proposed groom.The initiator of courtship may be a man, but in normal circumstances, it does not have direct access to the intended bride.The rules of propriety and custom require him to enter into indirect negotiations with the father of the woman or another man -opekunom.Betrothed couple can not be alone before the wedding, although sometimes they are enjoying each other's company in the presence of the adults responsible for them, such as parents.
usually ends with a wedding ceremony ceremony treats bridal yellow rice with chicken.And then the symbolism: the groom's mother treats first daughter and then a son.the bride's mother-in-law treats the first and the daughter progeny.Thereafter Suit
In Indonesia, every couple wishing to marry is required to put not one, but two fruit tree.If people wish to try their luck in marriage for the second time, you will have to plant three saplings.
wedding ceremony in Indonesia are so massive that their organization only by a whole village or an entire street in the city.Normally, a wedding committee consisting of tens, and sometimes hundreds of people.It is necessary to prepare a lot of food, build a huge canopy in case of rain, although the wedding, as mentioned above, is usually played on the third month after Lebarana that corresponds to the beginning of the dry season.It is necessary to collect hundreds of chairs for guests.Large expenditures worth and "art piece" orchestra, wayang presentation Purva etc.
At the appointed day, after prayers at the local mosque, and young visitors are on the streets of the town or village of the bride's house..The procession marching to the music played on the local national instruments.Rebyatnya all ages run immediately, hoping to get a piece of candy or other treats.The house where the ceremony will take place all take off their shoes, and embracing in the room where the entertainment takes place.The space where women celebrate the symbolic barrier separated from the male half.Young arranged so that the visible and women and men.