Other problems happen in families, but one of the most serious - when my husband drinks.What a woman with child, when her life was poisoned coexistence next to an alcoholic.Soon advice - give up and arrange his life, we can not always follow, because in memory of lives and the good that was once.And there is a fear that a person without the seven disappear completely, and hope, and suddenly something will change, and then life will sparkle with bright colors ...
Here is the letter that came to our office.What advise to Hope?
«I'm 25 years old.In the 18 years I was married to a loved one.I will not say that I did not have eyes, and I saw that Andrew often drinks.But I felt he loved me.Moreover, he swore that he would give up drinking.And I believe it, because I loved ...
The first year we lived normally, except for skirmishes in-law.She always taught me to live, to protect his son interfered in our affairs.But Andrew was afraid his mother and tried to stay OK - drank rarely, on holidays and was quie
But when Seryozha was born here and started ... My husband began to come drunk every day.I cried, begged swore to him, but to no avail.Then he began to guzzle wages, steal money from his mother, did not find the money - take things and sold.On the job went through the day he was fired, first one, then the other work.
I tried to leave with the child, but the mother in law became discouraged: "The child grows, he needs a father ... He's a good man, and quite lost without you, roll down to the bottom."And I obeyed.After all, in fact, Andrew, as a sober, ready to wash my feet and water to drink.Sworn that more in the mouth does not take, but the lack of these vows of force on a day or two.Twice a doctor, but it did not last long.
He says he loves his son.And the good of this love ?!The child is afraid of everything, at night screaming from every sound startled.When he grows up, wants to be a policeman, to cope with his father ...
At work, colleagues and friends are advised differently: one - to escape aimlessly, and who says to throw a person in need - is a betrayal.And what do I do?Recently, a man made me an offer.He is a kind, decent, caring, loves me, and Sergei will love.This is all so unexpected for me.I can not even say that I love him, or that we had an affair.I'm just a good feel about it, and my life is the only man who so carefully treated me, cares, empathizes.
I did put on a cross, because in this life not to sense some, and with this man there is hope that everything in my life is still a good figure.It is difficult to make a decision, here and wrote what others say or advise.Maybe someone in my position visited - all from the same visible.
I wish that my son grew up healthy and happy, and most - a woman feel.And Andrew is a pity to tears ... But drunkenness husband destroys our lives! "